Tuesday, 13 December 2011

6 THE WISDOM OF PERSONAL CHANGE


                     

        I  am   an   artist   at   living   —   my   work   of art   is   my   life.

                                                               Suzuki

True to his word, Julian showed up at my home the next evening.
At about 7:15 p.m., I heard four quick knocks on the front door of
my house,  a   Cape  Cod  design with   awful pink  shutters that my
wife    believed    made    our   house    look   like  something     out   of
Architectural     Digest.    Julian  himself   looked   strikingly   different
than he had the day before. He still embodied radiant health and
 exuded a wonderful sense of calm. It was what he was wearing that
made me a little uncomfortable.

     Adorning   his     obviously   supple   body   was   a   long   red   robe
topped by an ornately embroidered blue hood. And though it was
 another sticky night in July, the hood covered his head.
     "Greetings my friend," Julian offered enthusiastically.
     "Greetings."
     "Don't look so alarmed, what did you expect me to wear —
Armani?"


     We both started to laugh, softly at first. Soon our giggles had 
turned to guffaws. Julian certainly had not lost that wicked sense 
of humor that had kept me entertained so long ago. 
     As we relaxed in my cluttered but comfortable living room, I 
couldn't   help   but   notice   the   ornate   necklace   of wooden   prayer 
beads dangling from his neck. 
     "What are those? They're really beautiful." 
     "More about these later," he said, rubbing some of the beads 
with   his  thumb   and  index finger.  "We  have  much to  talk   about 
tonight." 
     "Let's get started .  I could hardly get anything done at work 
today I was so excited about our meeting." 
     Hearing his cue, Julian immediately started to reveal more 
about   his  personal  transformation   and  the   ease with which   it 
was   effected.   He   told   me   of   the   ancient   techniques   he   had 
learned   for   mind   control   and   for   erasing   the   habit   of worry 
that was consuming so many in our complex society.  He spoke 
of   the   wisdom     that   Yogi   Raman      and   the   other   monks     had 
shared for living a more purposeful and rewarding life. And he 
spoke     of   a  series  of   methods   to    unleash    the   wellspring     of 
youthfulness        and    energy     he    said   every     one    of  us   ha s 
slumbering deep inside of us . 

     Though the conviction with which he spoke was clear, I began 
to grow skeptical. Was I the victim of some prank? After all, this 
Harvard-trained lawyer was once widely known within the   firm 
for his practical jokes . As well, his story was nothing less than 
fantastic.  Think about it :  one of this country's best known trial 
lawyers throws in the towel, sells all his worldly goods and trek s 
off  to   India   on   a  spiritual   odyssey,   only   to   return   as   a   wise 
prophet from the Himalayas. This could not be real . 


     "C'mon      Julian.   Stop   pulling   my   leg.   This   whole    story   is 
starting to smack of one of your gags. I'll bet you rented that robe 
from    the   costume     shop   across    the   street  from    my   office,"  I 
suggested, breaking into my best fear grin. 
     Julian was quick to respond, as if my disbelief was something 
he had expected. "In court, how do you prove your case?" 
     "I offer persuasive evidence." 
     "Right. Look at the evidence that I have offered you. Look at 
my smooth, lineless face.  Look at my physique.  Can't you sense 
the abundance of energy I have? Look at my peacefulness. Surely 
you can see that I have changed?" 
     He had a point. This was a man who, only a few years ago, had 
looked decades older. 
     "You didn't go to a plastic surgeon did you?" 
     "No,"   he   smiled.   "They   only   focus   on   the   outer   person.   I 
needed to be healed from within. My unbalanced, chaotic lifestyle 
left me in great distress .  It was much more than a heart attack 
that I suffered. It was a rupture of my inner core." 
     "But your story, it's so . . . mysterious and unusual." 
     Julian remained calm and patient in the face of my persistence. 
Spotting  the   pot   of tea   I   had   left   on   the   table   next  to   him,   he 
started to pour into my waiting cup. He poured until the cup was 
full—but then he kept on pouring ! Tea started to trickle down the 
sides  of the  cup and into the saucer,  then  onto my wife's prized 
Persian rug . At first I watched silently. Then I couldn't take it any 
more. 

     "Julian, what are you doing? My cup is overflowing. No matter 
how hard you try, no more will go in!" I yelled impatiently. 
     He looked at me for a long moment. "Please don't take this the 
wrong way.  I   really respect you,  John .  I   always have.  However, 


jus t like this cup, you seem to be full of your own ideas. And how 
 can any more go in. . . until you first empty your cup?" 
     I was struck by the truth of his words. He was right. My many 
years in the conservative legal world, doing the same things every 
 day with the same people who thought the same thoughts every 
 day had filled  my cup   to  the  brim.  My wife  Jenny was  always 
telling me that we  should be meeting new people and exploring 
 new things. "I wish you were just a little more adventurous, John," 
 she would say. 
     I couldn't remember the last time I had read a book that didn't 
 deal with law. The profession was my life. I began to realize that 
the   sterile   world   I  had   grown   accustomed   to    had   dulled   my 
 creativity and limited my vision. 
     "Okay. I see your point," I admitted. "Perhaps all my years as 
 a trial lawyer have made me a hardened skeptic. From the minute 
 I saw you in my office yesterday, something deep inside me told me 
that your transformation was  genuine,  and that there was  some 
 sort of lesson in it for me. Maybe I just didn't want to believe it." 
     "John, tonight is the first night of your new life. I simply ask 
that you think deeply about the wisdom and strategies that I will 
 share with you and apply them with conviction for a period of one 
month.      Embrace      the   methods     with   a  deep    trust   in  their 
 effectiveness.   There    is  a  reason   why    they   have   survived   for 
thousands of years — they work." 
     "One month seems like a long time." 
     "Six    hundred     and   seventy-two      hours   of   inner  work    to 
profoundly improve every waking moment of the rest of your life 
 is quite a bargain, don't you think? Investing in yourself is the best 
 investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, 
 it will improve the lives of all those around you." 


     "How's that? " 
     "It is only when you have mastered the art of loving yourself 
that you can truly love others . It' s only when you have opened your 
own heart that you can touch the hearts of others. When you feel 
centered and alive, you are in a much better position to be a better 
person." 
     "What     can   I  expect   to   happen   in   those  six   hundred    and 
seventy-two hours that comprise one month?" I asked earnestly. 
     "You   will   experience   changes   within   the   workings   of your 
mind, body and even your soul that will astonish you. You will have 
more energy, enthusiasm and inner harmony than you have had in, 
perhaps, your entire life. People will actually begin telling you that 
you look younger and happier. A lasting sense of well-being and 
balance will swiftly return to your life. These are just some of the 
benefits of the Sivanan System." 
     "Wow." 
     "All of what you will hear tonight is designed to improve your 
life, not just personally and professionally but spiritually as well. 
The   advice   of the   sages  is just   as   current  today   as  it was   five 
thousand years ago. It will not only enrich your inner world, it will 
enhance your outer world and make you far more effective in all 
that you do. This wisdom is truly the most potent force I have ever 
encountered.  It is straightforward, practical and has been tested 
in the laboratory of life for centuries. Most importantly, it will work 
for anyone. But before I share this knowledge with you, I must ask 
you for a promise." 
     I  knew there would be  strings  attached.  "There are no free 
lunches," my loving mother used to say. 
     "Once you see the power of the strategies and skills shown to 
me by the Sages of Sivana and observe the dramatic results they 


will bring to your life, you must make it your mission to pass this 
wisdom on to others who will benefit from this knowledge. This is 
all that I ask of you. By agreeing to this, you will help me fulfill my 
own pact with Yogi Raman." 
     I   agreed without reservation,  Julian began to  teach   me  the 
system he had come to consider as sacred. While the techniques 
that Julian had mastered during his stay were varied, at the heart 
of    the   Sivanan     System      were    seven     basic   virtues,     seven 
fundamental        principles     which    embodied       the   keys    to   self- 
leadership, personal responsibility and spiritual enlightenment. 
     Julian told me that Yogi Raman was the first to share the seven 
virtues with him after a few months in Sivana. On a clear night, 
when   all   the   others   had   drifted   off into   deep   slumber,   Raman 
knocked softly on the door of Julian's hut. In the voice of a gentle 
guide, he spoke his mind: "I have observed you closely for many 
days now Julian. I believe that you are a decent man who deeply 
desires to fill his life with all that is good. Since you have arrived 
you have opened yourself up to our traditions and embraced them 
as your own. You have learned a number of our daily habits, and 
have seen their many salutary effects. You have been respectful of 
our ways. Our people have lived this simple, peaceful life through 
countless   ages   and   our   methods   are   known   to   but   a   few.   The 
world needs to hear our philosophy on enlightened living. Tonight, 
on the eve of your third month in Sivana, I will begin to share the 
inner workings of our system with you, not only for your benefit 
but for the benefit of all those in your part of the world. I will sit 
with you daily as I sat with my son when he was a child. Sadly, he 
passed on a few years ago. His time had come and I do not question 
his exit. I enjoyed our time together and cherish the memories. I 
now see you as my son and I feel grateful that all I have learned 


over many years of silent contemplation will live on within you." 
     I looked at Julian and noticed that his eyes were now shut, as 
if he were transporting himself back to this fairy-tale land that had 
showered the blessing of knowledge on him. 
     "Yogi     Raman     told   me    that  the   seven    virtues   for   a  life 
overflowing with inner peace, joy and  a wealth   of spiritual  gifts 
were contained within a mystical fable, thi s fable was the essence 
of it all. He asked me to shut my eyes as I have now done, here on 
the   floor   of your   living   room.   He   then   told   me   to   picture   the 
following scene in my mind's eye : 

     You are sitting in the middle of a magnificent, lush, green 
     garden.     This   garden   is filled   with   the   most   spectacular 
    flowers  you have ever seen. The environment is supremely 
     tranquil   and   silent.   Savor   the    sensual   delights    of  this 
     garden and feel as if you have all the time in the world to 
     enjoy this natural oasis. As you look around you see that 
     in the center of this magical garden stands a towering, red 
     lighthouse,   six stories high.   Suddenly,   the silence of the 
     garden is disturbed by a loud creaking as the door at the 
     base of the lighthouse opens. Out stumbles a nine-foot-tall, 
     nine-hundred-pound           Japanese       sumo      wrestler     who 
     casually wanders into the center of the garden. 

     "It   gets   better, "   chuckled     Julian .  "The    Japanese      sumo 
wrestler is naked ! Well, actually he is not totally naked. He has a 
pink wire cable covering his private parts. " 

    As this sumo wrestler starts to move around the garden, 
     he  finds   a shiny gold stopwatch which someone had left 


     behind many years earlier. He slips it on, and falls to the 
     ground   with   an   enormous   thud.        The   sumo   wrestler   is 
     rendered unconscious and lies there,   silent and still. Just 
     when you think he has taken his last breath,   the wrestler 
     awakens, perhaps stirred by the fragrance of some fresh 
     yellow   roses   blooming   nearby.   Energized,         the   wrestler 
    jumps     swiftly to   his feet   and intuitively   looks   to   his   left. 
     He is startled at what he sees.   Through the bushes at the 
     very edge of the garden he observes a long winding path 
     covered   by   millions   of sparkling   diamonds.          Something 
     seems to instruct the wrestler to take the path,   and to his 
     credit,   he   does.   This path   leads   him   down   the   road   of 
     everlasting joy and eternal bliss. 

     After    hearing   this   strange   tale    high   atop   the   Himalayas, 
seated     next    to   a  monk      who    had    seen    the   torchlight     of 
enlightenment first-hand, Julian told me that he was disappointed. 
Quite     simply,   he   said   that   he   thought   he   was   going   to   hear 
something   earth-shattering,   knowledge   that   would   stir   him   to 
action, perhaps even move him to tears . Instead, all he heard was 
a silly story about a sumo wrestler and a lighthouse. 
     Yogi Raman detected his dismay. "Never overlook the power 
of simplicity," Julian was told. 
     "This story may not be the sophisticated discourse that you 
expected," said the sage, "but there is a universe of sensibility in 
its message and a purity in its purpose. From the day you arrived, 
I   have   thought   long   and     hard   as   to   how  I   would   share   our 
knowledge with you. At first I considered giving you a series of 
lectures over a period of months but realized that this traditional 
approach was ill-suited to the magical nature of the wisdom you 


are about to receive.  I then thought of asking all of my brothers 
and sisters to spend a little time with you every day tutoring you 
in our philosophy. However, this too was not the most effective way 
for you to learn what it is we have to tell. After great deliberation, 
I finally arrived at what I thought was a very creative yet highly 
effective way to share the entire system of Sivana with its seven 
virtues. . . and that is this mystical fable." 

     The  sage  added :  "At first it might seem to be  frivolous   and 
perhaps even childish. But I assure you that every element of the 
fable embodies a timeless principle for radiant living and has great 
depth of meaning. The garden, the lighthouse, the sumo wrestler, 
the pink wire cable, the stopwatch, the roses and the winding path 
of  diamonds   are   symbols   of  the   seven   timeless   virtues   for   an 
enlightened life.  I can also assure you that if you remember this 
little story and the fundamental truths that it represents, you will 
carry within you all that you need to know to raise your life to its 
highest level. You will have all the information and strategies you 
will need to profoundly influence the quality of your life and the 
lives of all those you touch. And when you apply this wisdom on a 
daily basis, you will change—mentally, emotionally, physically and 
spiritually. Please write this story deep into your mind and carry it 
within your heart   It will only make  a dramatic difference if you 
embrace it without reservation." 

     "Luckily John," said Julian, "I did embrace it. Carl Jung once 
 said that 'your vision will become clear only when you can look into 
your     heart .  Who    looks   outside,    dreams ;    who   looks    inside, 
awakens.' On that very special night, I looked deep into my heart 
and awakened to the secrets of the ages for enriching the mind, 
cultivating the body and nourishing the soul. It is now my turn to 
 share them with you." 



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